RE’IM — In a poignant gathering marked by grief and resilience, the site of the Nova festival massacre hosted a solemn festival of remembrance on October 7, commemorating the tragic events of one year ago.
Thousands of Israelis, including survivors of the horrific attack, relatives of victims, and countless supporters, came together to honor the 364 lives lost at this once-celebrated festival, now a site of profound sorrow.
The Nova festival, which was intended as a celebration of music and community, was shattered when Hamas terrorists launched a brutal assault on attendees, leaving a scar that continues to ache in the hearts of many.
As the sun rose on the anniversary of the massacre, attendees spoke of ongoing pain and loss while expressing their unwavering commitment to keep the memories of their loved ones alive.
A Day of Mourning and Hope
Two distinct ceremonies took place on the morning of October 7, the first at 6:25 a.m., attended by President Isaac Herzog and other dignitaries.
The second occurred at 11:47 a.m. near a large yellow container, a grim reminder of the massacre where over a dozen individuals sought refuge but were ultimately discovered and killed by a lone terrorist. Only four people hiding in that container survived the attack.
Gilad Maman, one of the survivors, solemnly lowered a flag to half-staff at the start of the ceremony, symbolizing the collective mourning felt across the nation.
Reflecting on the horrors of that day, Chagit Lavi recounted the last conversation she had with her son, Omri Lavi, who was murdered while attempting to escape.
“Life will never be the same again. There is a hole in my heart for the rest of my life,” she shared, her voice breaking with emotion.
Omri had been with a childhood friend, desperately trying to navigate blocked roads to find safety. Just ten minutes after their last exchange, they were shot from behind.
The Lavi family was informed of Omri’s death five days later when his body was identified, a heart-wrenching reminder of the brutality that unfolded at the festival.
“This is a very difficult day emotionally, for the family, for the whole country. We have been living in a war for an entire year,” Chagit lamented, noting that ongoing rocket fire from Lebanon had prevented them from holding a one-year memorial service.
Transforming Grief into Tribute
The site of the Nova festival, located near Kibbutz Re’im, has undergone a transformation in the past year, evolving into a haunting yet beautiful memorial.
The area now features hundreds of shrines dedicated to the victims, adorned with photos of young men and women who lost their lives.
These tributes are scattered throughout the forested grounds, providing a visual representation of the profound loss experienced by families and friends.
Visitors to the site can find small memorials in the sands, bumper stickers on rocket shelters, and large informational boards commemorating the victims.
Many displays include the last words exchanged between victims and their loved ones during the attack, offering a glimpse into the fear and desperation that characterized those final moments.
A carpet of ceramic poppies now blankets the site, symbolizing the lives cut short, while a dedicated team of religious scribes works to write a Torah scroll in honor of the deceased.
Visitors are invited to hold the scribes’ hands as they inscribe the sacred text, a gesture of solidarity with those lost.
Social workers from the Safe Heart organization, dedicated to providing psychological support to survivors and their families, were also present, offering comfort amidst the emotional turmoil.
As the ceremonies progressed, attendees reflected on their shared grief, participating in musical tributes that alternated between mournful and uplifting tones.
The Echoes of Survival and Loss
Among the attendees was Ronit Levy, a survivor of the massacre who returned to the site for the second time. She described her emotional state as numb, feeling disconnected from the magnitude of what transpired.
“I feel frozen, I can’t explain why, I’m numb,” she confessed, anxiously toying with a necklace around her neck.
Despite the overwhelming sadness, Ronit expressed feelings of survivor’s guilt, grappling with the dichotomy of relief at her escape and sorrow for those who perished.
“I went one way and survived; others went a different way and were murdered,” she said, emphasizing the randomness of survival in such a chaotic situation.
Alongside two others, Ronit had fled the massacre after two harrowing hours of driving off-road while bullets struck the ground around them.
Another poignant testimony came from Michal Bitton, whose daughter, Maya, was killed in the container where she had sought refuge with her fiancé, Eliran.
Standing at the site, Michal spoke with remarkable composure about the love and dreams that were extinguished that day.
“This is a very strong day, a very emotional day, especially this ceremony next to the container where our children were murdered,” she stated, her eyes filled with unshed tears.
A Community in Mourning
As visitors wound their way through the memorial, the atmosphere was thick with shared grief and collective remembrance.
The rhythmic sounds of IDF artillery nearby served as a stark reminder that the conflict, which erupted following the attack, continues unabated. For many, the ceremonies offered a chance to confront their loss and find solace in the support of their community.
Amid the sorrow, attendees shared stories of resilience and determination. Many expressed a commitment to honor the memories of their loved ones by advocating for peace and understanding.
The sentiment echoed through the crowd as people engaged in heartfelt conversations about the future and the importance of remembering those who had been lost.
Chagit Lavi emphasized the significance of maintaining the memory of the victims. “We are here to remember, to keep their stories alive, and to ensure that their lives meant something,” she stated.
Her words resonated deeply, encapsulating the resolve of all those present to turn their pain into a force for change.
Continuing the Fight for Justice
As the day came to a close, the somber atmosphere transformed into one of hope and resilience.
Attendees lit candles in memory of the victims, their flickering flames illuminating the darkening sky. Each candle represented a life lost, a story untold, and a family forever changed.
The ceremonies served not only as a reminder of the tragedy but also as a call to action for justice and accountability. Survivors and family members pledged to continue advocating for their loved ones and to seek answers about the circumstances surrounding the attack.
In the wake of the Nova festival massacre, the scars of loss and trauma remain, but the resilience of those affected shines through.
As the community gathers to remember, they do so with the knowledge that their loved ones will never be forgotten. The echoes of their laughter and love will continue to resonate in the hearts of those who remain.
A Future Built on Memory
The anniversary of the Nova festival massacre stands as a testament to the enduring spirit of a community grappling with grief while striving to create a future grounded in peace and remembrance.
The stories shared, the tears shed, and the strength displayed on this somber day collectively honor the lives lost while forging a path toward healing.
As the sun set on October 7, the flickering candlelight became a symbol of hope amid darkness. Attendees departed from the memorial site, carrying with them the stories of their loved ones and a commitment to ensure that the past is never forgotten.
The Nova festival massacre will remain etched in the memory of a nation, serving as a poignant reminder of the need for compassion, understanding, and the unwavering pursuit of peace.